Tuesday, April 10, 2018

A Hat, A Poet and A Pair of Shoes


 The Hat...

Once upon a time, in a conservative, Southwestern Ontario city, there lived a women who loved hats.  She loved looking at hats, the more dramatic and unusual, the better.  She loved to see other women wearing hats, and had several friends who lived in other cities who wore hats every day.   When she travelled, she enjoyed visiting hat stores and vintage shops where she would try on hats and picture herself wearing them on the weekend, or on an evening out.  She wanted to be one of those women who wore a hat with confidence and panache. "This is the one!" she would think, the one that I WILL wear, only to take it home and find that it sat on the top of her wardrobe, or in a hat box, admired, but unworn.   It turns out that she loved the idea of hats, and what they represented, more than wearing the hats themselves.

However....
Occasionally, she would find a hat that was simple, but still had a bit of drama, went with many of her outfits, and did not make her feel uncomfortable or self-conscious when she wore it.

It's like a beret, only with more structure.  Wool felt hat from The Sentimentalist

Enjoying some sun on my face, wearing some of my favourite black and grey pieces.  Waxed cotton vest and faux leather leggings from From Mars, ribbon-laced Doc Martens purchased in New York.

These photos were taken at the end of February when we had a brief spell of very spring-like weather, and I could get away with wearing a lighter coat.  I found the vintage wool coat at Blue Pepper Vintage closing sale.  There was either something very interesting going on in the sky to my right, or, more likely, I discovered that if I tilt my head upwards, it gets rid of that annoying "soft and wrinkly" neck in my photos.


The Poet....

I was thrilled to learn that Canadian poet bill bissett was going to be in London to do a reading at one of our local branch libraries.  bill and I have known each other for about 30 years, and while we don't see each other very often, he has always been one of my favourite people.  He has a sweet and gentle spirit, a lovely sense of humour, and for all the challenges (including a severe head injury in the 1960's, and two recent heart surgeries) he has faced in his life, retains a positive and optimistic outlook.  bill, whose sound and concrete poems at one time earned him praise from Jack Kerouac, is the author of more than 60 books of poetry, and is also a painter and musician.  His poetry can be challenging to read as he has abandoned all use of capitals, punctuation, and conventional spelling, but it is a joy to listen to him read his own work.  You can find the words of one of the earliest poems I every read of his, "Cooking Carrot Soup" here, and there are several videos of him reading his poetry on Youtube.

The Shoes....

I was contacted by a representative of Calla Shoes, a start-up company in the UK that sells stylish shoes designed specifically for women who have bunions.  The founder of the company, a woman who has bunions herself, wanted to provide heels were both stylish and comfortable to wear, and that protect and conceal bunions.  They noticed I mentioned I suffer from bunions in one of my blog posts, and offered me a pair of shoes from their website to try them out.   Since I don't wear heels, and for now, the two styles they carry are heeled pumps and ballet flats, I went with a pair of grey suede ballet flats.  The shoes arrived from the UK in record time, beautifully packaged.  They are a nice looking shoe, with a comfortable cushioned insole, and they fit, in that the wider front did accommodate and conceal my bunions, but unfortunately, because my foot is also fairly wide in the middle, the sides of the shoes bulged and my foot slipped out when I walked.  I have never been able to wear ballet flats because of the shape of my feet, and the need for more support than they provide, and I was hoping these might be the exception to the rule, but alas, not.  I contacted the company to get instructions on how to return the shoes, and they generously suggested I gift them to someone else. 

As it happens, they fit my bestie's feet perfectly (she and I both wear a size 10, but she doesn't have bunions), and she quite liked them, so they found a good home after all!  Thanks very much to Calla Shoes, for letting me try their product, and for letting me re-gift them.   If you have bunions and haven't been able to find heels that you can wear, take a look at their website.